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Unravelling Complicated Affairs after Someone's Death

Understanding the Finances of a Dead Relative, Partner or Friend There will almost inevitably be loose ends to tidy up following a death. Some situations can be complicated and emotionally draining. Unexpected issues may even arise for years after a person’s death.

How can you deal with the unexpected and carry on with your life?
  • Arm yourself with the facts. When it comes to paperwork, financial and legal affairs - get organised. Find all the information you need, keep it together in one place and if you aren’t sure then get good advice.

  • Don’t ignore legal issues or those associated with tax or debt. It is best to get them resolved as quickly and amicably as possible.

  • Use those around you. If you are struggling to deal with a particular situation then use friends and family to help you get through it.

  • Be prepared for a few surprises. Although we have all heard of death bed confessionals they rarely take place. It is not uncommon for former spouses, mistresses, illegitimate children and unpaid debts to come out the woodwork. If you feel unable to cope with them at the time then ask for some help.

You may find it useful to get professional advice from an expert in the relevant area. You can find specialist legal, financial and counselling advice in our Finding Local Help section.